Date Girls

Dating women. We all want to do it and we all want to be good at it. There are  many articles on what to do when you go on a date so I decided to do one on what not to do. Here are 3 tips on what not to do while dating women:

Don’t be careless about your appearance

When you have asked a woman out, you need to impress her. Now, would you be impressed with a girl who looks completely plain, appears without any make up and in oversize dresses? We’re not talking about the “girl next door” here, but a woman that just didn’t take the time to take care of herself. The answer is no! You would have probably thought she has a horrible fashion sense and steer clear of her. (Although, some cute, nerdy or librarian types can be A LOT of fun!) The same is true about women. Women are in fact more particular about outward appearances and this is not limited to the appearance of themselves and their partners. You may have noticed how your mom is always finicky about keeping the house clean and well organized.

Therefore, make sure you are well-groomed and well-dressed. You can even swallow your male ego a bit and visit a  beauty salon the previous day you are going on a date. If you don’t like to appear to be too well-groomed, adopt a carefully careless style. Apply hair gel and style your hair in a funky way. If you are positive you look sexy with an unshaven chin, don’t bother to shave. Be particularly careful about choosing an elegant pair of shoes.

Don’t be docile

Women don’t like men who are docile, period. While you must be a gentleman, you need to be somewhat aggressive too. For example, if your date names an actor to be her favorite whom you hate, don’t just agree with her in order to impress her. She will respect you more if you say that you don’t like this particular actor for such and such reasons.

Don’t be predictable

Women like mysteriousness and spontiousness  in men as much as men like it in their women. While dating women, one sure shot way to win her heart is to appear funny and enigmatic. Don’t just keep on giving stock answers to the stock questions as if you are in for a job interview. Be funny and make her laugh. If you are boring and predictable, however nice you are, you will end up becoming a “good friend” of your dream girl.